Did you ever notice that there is a different tone and feel to a wedding and the celebration that follows when a couple has been living together prior to taking their vows?
Something is missing.
Oh, it's not the guests, the music, the cake, or the decorations. There is always plenty of that to go around.
But something is lacking.
I will go so far as to say that there is a special look that is absent in the way a co-habitating bride and groom even look at each other.
There is no anticipation and no excitement of a new 'beginning'.
Cohabitation makes a mockery of a sacred vow and sacrament, and leaves the bride and groom without that tangible sense of the life-long vocation and commitment that they are entering into.
Some 750 million people flocked to their televisions to watch the royal wedding of Prince Charles and Princess Diana in 1981. This was in a time when cohabitation would have been a royal embarrassment. Despite an increase of accessibility to view the ceremony, is it possible that the widespread knowledge that the Royal Couple, Prince William and Kate, have been cohabitating for 8 years, is the reason for America's notable lack of excitement about this royal wedding?
Where is the mention or outrage of this public scandal and embarrassment? The Dallas Morning News of April 9 captured the mood well when reporting "William and Kate's cohabitation elicits a shrug."
Is this a clear example that children grow up and live what they learned? Or are the sins of the father (Prince Charles' long accepted affair with Camilla) being visited upon the son (Prince William)?
It is, in fact, a myth that cohabitation is a good way to determine compatibility.
Switching over to a full commitment after finally taking marriage vows can be difficult if not impossible after a couple lives together first. .
The US Bureau of Census (2000) tells us that 60-75% of first marriages are now preceded by cohabitation. A Canadian Study (Wu, 2000) found that prior cohabitation doubles the chances that a marriage would end in divorce. This may explain the utter chaos we see today within society and the Church....
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